Christmas is approaching, and the offer of Christmas gifts begins to increase. Parents and family members, in general, are faced with the question of what to give their children and whether these gifts will be really useful for them. On many occasions, excessive consumerism causes children to receive so many gifts that it will be difficult for them to make the most of them or perhaps they do not fit their tastes or needs. MA. Mary Castro, psychologist of our clinic, shares valuable recommendations for choosing the right gifts for the little ones this Christmas.

What is the ideal amount of gifts a child should receive at Christmas?

It is advisable not to give more than 4 gifts because if the child receives more gifts, he/she will not be able to take advantage of them and will not have enough time to explore and play with them. The needs that these toys should cover must respond to the utility that the child will give them. Above all, these gifts should help their development and cover the requirements they may have. We must consider:

• Utility. That is something that is of common use and necessary for them.
• Use. Choose something they can use or wear for the next few weeks or months.
• It can be a book, puzzles, different board games, or something that helps develop their creativity. The child’s age and interests should be taken into account.
• Wishes of the child. That is a toy or an experience (walk or trip). For this, parents should be attentive to the taste and real desire of the child, also considering whether it is appropriate for their age.

Recommendations for an effective choice of Christmas gifts

• Family agreement. It is suggested that parents talk with close relatives, such as grandparents or aunts and uncles, to coordinate gifts and avoid overloading the child with gifts that he or she will not be able to take advantage of.
• Teach how to make the most of the toy. Sometimes children do not know how to play with something they are given. It will be necessary for the parent or adult to accompany the child to help or guide him/her, in case he/she must follow instructions.
• Age and habits. Consider the child’s age and habits when selecting gifts; you can even consult with the parents to make sure it is appropriate.

Remember:

Beyond the consumerism to which these dates can lead us, it will be important to educate our children about the true essence of the Christmas season: solidarity, sharing with others, and family togetherness.

MA. Mary Castro,
Psychologist de la Clínica Ricardo Palma